Jeff...
You might want to check out the "pay per view" set-up at one of my "secret" video sites...
veoh.com -- they have a PRO account set-up (free to join) that let's you charge for your videos... Veoh collects the money for you and then forwards you the funds (minus a small processing charge)... they can even limit the amount of time or plays that someone has access to your video for...
Of course the idea thing is to set up your own private membership type page/script and handle everything yourself... in the end it may be more profitable for you... for about $100 a year you can get a high-traffic account at somewhere like
DreamHost that gives you 5-terabytes of bandwidth just to start (and increased by 20gb every week)... that's more than you'll ever need for most video streaming... couple that with a simple membership site script that processes payments through Paypal or 2CO and you can have a system that is designed to run specifically the way you want it to... and you'll never have to worry about the 3rd party video services...
Heck, depending on how big your video is and how much you are charging for access you could also just store the video and feed it from the
Amazon Web Services Simple Storage Service (AS3) and embed the video on any plain vanilla web account using a membership script... they charge .18 cents per GB for the first 10 terabytes used on data transfer... you can allocate some of the fee you charge for access to pay for the data transfer fee (I doubt your video will be at or larger than 1gb)... if you were to use 250gb of data transfer a month that's only $45 in fees -- and you only pay for what is used (not including the original .15 cents per GB of storage used)...
By the way, most of the current Silicon Valley start-ups and service sites are using the Amazon servers/system because of their uptime reliability and low entry cost...
Hope this helps...
Success!!!

Tony Blake
Marketing Mindreader™
New Media/Content2.0™ Maven
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PS: If you're interested in checking out and getting an account at DreamHost (which is where this board and most of the videos on the site are hosted) let me know and I'll get you a $50 discount promo coupon that you can use (and all DH accounts come with a FREE domain name registered to you)... just PM me... 